5 traps to avoid if you want to be successful

What are life traps?


Life is a journey that will have pitfalls along the way—difficulties we cannot be prepared to handle. And journeys have ups and downs and traps we cannot foresee. Things we can fall prey to while we're traveling life's journey.


One of the disadvantages of traps is that you cannot predict them; they're unseen. By the time you see them, it's already too late. And because we don't see the traps, we don't prepare for them.

So today, we will look into five life traps you should avoid if you want to be successful in life.

Please sit back and grab your favorite drink and let's dive in.





1. Debt trap

Debt is one of life's major traps which can drag you down and derail your success. No one tries to get into debt intentionally. It's just one thing that happens without your notice or may even feel like it's out of your control.



Here are five ways you can avoid debt:

  • Don't buy it if you have to use a credit card.
  • Have a fallback emergency fund.
  • Let go of the wants and focus on the needs.
  • Everything is better with a budget.
  • Stick to a Savings Routine.






2. Instant gratification Trap


We live in an age of never-ending Instant gratification. Life is meant to be enjoyed but perhaps not wasted. The ability to hold back gratification is a superpower and essential to self-control.


Here are a few tips to help you overcome instant gratification 

  • Know the causes behind instant gratification
  • Cravings and urges come, and co-make conscious choices about how you want to manage your urges.
  • Delay your actions once you become aware of your impulses for immediate gratification.
  • Overcome instant gratification by practicing mindful living.




3. Procrastination trap


Most of us are caught in the procrastination trap; whether doing the housework or perhaps going to the gym, we always find a way to avoid doing the work. Procrastination can be detrimental to your success, but lucky we have five ways you can avoid this trap.


  • Sticking to a To-Do List will prevent you from forgetting about those unpleasant or overwhelming tasks.
  • Prioritize your work; this will enable you to identify the activities quickly you should focus on and the ones you can ignore.
  • Become a master of scheduling. Plan your time effectively, and reduce your levels of stress.
  • Tackle the hardest tasks first. What times do you find yourself most productive morning or the afternoon? When you find out the times you're most effective, get up and do the tasks that you find most difficult at these times.
  • Give yourself time-bound goals. Deadlines will keep you on track to achieve your goals and will mean you have no time for procrastination.






4. Pride trap


Pride isn't always positive. Pride can also mean arrogance or superiority. This kind of pride is dangerous and based on self-centeredness, and it's destructive and will eventually lead to your downfall.

Selfish pride is especially toxic to relationships. 

 Here are ways you can counteract your tendency toward pride and self-centeredness.

  • Recognize and Admit Your Pride.
  • Express Your Gratitude
  • Practice Servanthood
  • Laugh at Yourself whenever you start getting prideful 
  • Appreciate other people 






5. Victim Mentality Trap


Why is this always happening to me? It is a question most people ask when they are caught up in the victim trap. To avoid and break the victim mentality trap, you must first have compassion for yourself.


Resource yourself with any qualities you need to support yourself—no shaming or blaming. Showing love to others can help you love yourself. And when you love yourself, you are better at protecting yourself. 


Here are five steps you can take to avoid the victim trap.

  • No Shaming or Blaming, and have compassion for yourself instead
  • Build Confidence by Creating Small, Achievable Goals
  • Give more love; the satisfaction you receive from loving or showing love to others gives you a reason to love yourself
  • Be Grateful for What You Have
  • Take Ownership of Your Decisions





Conclusion 


Never believe you are helpless to avoid getting caught up in these life traps. Take responsibility for your life; bring about the change you desire. Be willing to be a little uncomfortable. Learn to thrive in tough situations. Be smart with your expenses. Your lifestyle doesn't always have to catch up with your income.

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